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Posted By on 07-13-2009 02:14 PM
Thank you Commander...It is terrific to finally see someone in your position take a stand for all of the military families who are in this position.

When I speak of this to other non military people I am often asked what makes us so special-It is not so much "special" as it is unique. The news is full of stories about how the government and mortgage companies are helping families facing foreclosures and the one common criteria for this aid is that the home must be the primary residence. This where military families are "unique." We are facing a totally separate set of circumstances. When we are forced into a PCS move the home ceases to be the primary residence. At this point we are trying sell, not because of a bad loan, or a transfer of choice but because we have no choice but to move or be separated. Because of the "crisis" not only were we at a disadvantage to actually sell but now most of us are upside down which has made the burden even tougher to bear...I don't know many military families with an extra 100K or more just laying around.

The waiting lists for base housing at most duty stations are incredibly long and many times inadequate. Renting is an option but why pay someone else's mortgage and why should we wait until retirement to enjoy some of the tax benefits homeownership garners. There are also any number of other reasons why many military families choose homeownership, in fact many of those reasons mirror those of the average civilian family.

Yet here we are sitting idly by with very few options (if any) as Wall Street and certain sectors of homeowners are provided with alternatives and we seem to be expected to suck it up. We pay taxes just like anyone else and many service members have a spouse that works and pays taxes as well.

We are living this nightmare-a lender told me recently when looking at a short sale option that not only would we receive 1099 for the amount of the deficit but we would also have to sign a promissory note for the deficit. Additionally there was only a 50-100 difference in points on our credit between foreclosure and short sale. Where is the benefit-It is not our fault that the industry, even our mortgage holder engaged in bad lending practices and that is the best they have to offer us.

When we contacted the VA (our loan is VA backed) and explained our situation-by virtue of PCS orders it is not our intent to keep the home, we were told our only option was to let the house go into foreclosure and suffer the consequences.

WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why can't someone up there on capital hill put a little focus into coming up with a solution for military families and stop pretending like our situation is just like everyone else...It is likely too late for our family and many others who have been following the extraordinary efforts of Joe Gladden and team for sometime now...we expect foreclosure in a matter of months...we have tried and we hope that our lender will end up working out something with us but thus far we have been given no reason to be optimistic. Our credit will be trashed and my hubby's security clearance may be in jeporady but at least we will have some measure of peace in knowing that there is no where to go but up when all is said and done and through it all we ended up together as a family.

No matter, we will continue to follow and support the efforts of Joe & team and pray that somehow all of the closed ears on capital hill will be opened.
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